Is there true love?

True love? what is that?. Every where we hear about love, but not about true love… We can
never find an explanation.. it is a feeling experienced by some fortunate people in the world. We fall in love with anyone ,but a person falls in true love only once.This is same with the case of a boy or a girl.Now falling in love has become a fashion everywhere..Some feels it as a honour to have a girlfriend as it gives a prominent place among friends.There is another category who will be interested in having girlfriend wherever they go..These flirts are cowards who dosent believe in themselves.They can’t stick to their decisions..They will be stubborn about their feelings but just ignore the feelings of others.Are these people ashamed of using the word love all the time in the name of enjoying life?In most cases love arises out of infactuation,No one agrees to it but.,it is said as the first step in falling love.

Love in school and colleges are promoted by friends..rather than the lovers..Their friends are eager to see them as lovers..This happens mostly in schools. This relationship may even continue till they reach up to college..After that they feel so stupid in falling love during school days or bring some other reason and break the relation.95% relationship starts and ends by the end of college itself.When they think practically love appears to have lesser value than their future . When a relationship breaks pain is endured by the lovers, not their friends. It is very hard for a person to forget his/her first love..Especially when its tamed from schooldays , It becomes even worser.

Often girls find it difficult to forget, as they tend to give more importance for everything that happens in their life.This pain remains as an everlasting wound in mind.Nomatter how much they try to hate the person, they still love that person.This is because their love is not tainted by self-interest.But there are people who find little time to regret over their past relationships.When such people get into a relation they get so excited and tries to exaggerate about their future plans to their friends..Their words will tend us to say their love story as the epitome of true love.On hearing it ,we would feel it was so foolish not to be in love. After a few days something or the other happens and the relation breaks. Funny thing after this is that these lovers get into another realationship.They will be least worried about the break ups.But the spectators won’t be able to swallow it, as it was they who crowned them as true lovers…Thus nowadays love is based on practical thinking..

Love leading to marriage is a rare possibility.After marriage love turns to commitment between two persons.When a person is in love he tries hard to get the attention of the other.For this they tend to do what that person likes.Its only after marriage they tend to share their likes and dislikes more than before.This bonds between them a frame of true love.But some people tend to gaze at their past relations more, that they lose hope in everything.They hate marriages and even start blaming the person of opposite sex as the reason for their failures.Such Hippocrates would never find anything wrong in them.They fear to face the truth.

To keep in pace with this busy world true love gets constricted to crush. The word love is dedicated for one person..But crush gives the flexibility in mentioning many names.It dosen’t mean I love him or I don’t love him.The listener has the freedom to choose what that person means by crush..It is proud for us that true lovers like Shajahan and Mumtaz existed once in this world .Now as people adopt different cultures their outlook on life and love change.Whatever culture we adopt let the divinity of true love be in our minds!!!